So my gf had a birthday the other day and she posted a pic with her family and in the pic you see people commenting happy birthday  And she posted all the people that came to see her and in her post a guy says "I love you happy birthday baby heart emoji" And she says "thank you so much for you and your daughter to come and see me and all the gifts I love you very much " And the guy puts "I love you more" I looked at the guys page seems like around my age 30 ish" I confronted her about it and she said what guy are you talking about my son that was in the video she pans the camera to her whole family  And says there was no other guy then I say the guys name and she said its her cousin then I say that's not your cousin just to see her bluff and she says that it's a family friend that she watches his daughter  it just doesn't sit well with me she takes forever to reply and I saw she even like replied to his timeline about a video it could be a cousin  But I feel it's not and she tried to twist things on me about that I talk to other girls which is a red flag all around now she's saying that she can't go out as much because of imagration Which is true and her family are Immigrants and so is she so her dad just got out of surgery and the mom has surgery this week she said she'll be busy taking care of both of them while trying to work at night I do believe that part  And shes told me that this whole situation brings her alot of stress which I understand she's juggling a job trying to help pay her families rent while caring for them while ice is in the area But I don't know am I wrong for pressing her about this I don't know what I should do I kinda just want to keep her around for sex she's a really good person but I just don't like the not texting back for a long ass time  Days or even a week which is showing low interest already sometimes she'll just read my message which I don't want to loose more dignity that I have because honestly I think I  just wanna go travel to Thailand and Brazil and just forget about her but I do care and love her what should I do in this situation