I think I fucked up

4 Comments
4 Cmts
T

7 Posts (+0)

42 Cmts (+36)

T

7 Posts (+0), 42 Cmts (+36)

Unfortunately most of these messages were on snapchat so I don't have screenshots.

I had previously mentioned to this girl that I built a night club in my room. She said she wanted to see it, but I was moving at the time so had to dismantle it.

Yesterday she messaged me saying "You've moved into your new place now right?"

I wanted to playfully misinterpret this and replied "Inviting yourself round already?"

Looking back at this, I think I wasn't misinterpreting at all, but correctly interpreting. By replying as I did I make her feel slutty, so she doesn't feel as comfortable meeting me.

My questions:
Do you agree with my assessment?
If yes, how can I fix it?

0
O

20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)

I would either do what Eric says (higher % in my eyes) or wait 48h then send

"Bc I wouldn't mind at all 😏"

0
T

7 Posts (+0), 42 Cmts (+36)

Thanks for the advice.
Don't think I explained well as I'm not re-opening. Just trying to be reassuring after what I said.
I'll try a variation of your last comment

0
E

10 Posts (+0), 56 Cmts (+25)

Wait a couple of days and reengage (with a meme of Ryan Gosling saying “happy Monday” (depending on the day you will reengage her)

0
D

1 Post (+0), 15 Cmts (+10)

Could be right. You can fix it by showing you don't judge, and that you like it.

Wait 48 hrs. "Didn't take you for the shy type. I like a girl that knows what she wants (or something like that. / an assertive girl w/e)

0
Playing With Fire Logo