If you don’t want to read just check the screenshots. Gaps in our texts bc shes a horrible texter. I’ll explain later, learned a lot about persistency, dealing with cancelling, flaking, LMR, low investment, etc. as I talked to her.

So this started 3 weeks ago on my post about the “we” frame. Open her (before I got permabanned) in Spanish... shoot the shit then we frame & number close.

Bounce her to text and tried to lock plans in quick, we do, I have to reschedule, she’s cool with it, I screen further & don’t hit her up until the day of to confirm. When I go to confirm she doesn’t respond. I got ghosted for a week. I wasn’t double texting either, I waited for her to respond. She apologized & said her job keeps her super busy screenshots not included.

I ask her again about our romantic date where I cook and we drink wine, she’s fine with it. Same thing, go to confirm & she’s super late and cancels again because she doesn’t want to come over to my place on the first date. (Even though I told her this through voice already & she agreed).. it’s a shit test I thought.. no big deal, tried to meet in my lobby.. HARD NO. Okay cool, she has a concern and wants to meet on neutral ground first. Fine.

I setup a date in public (the ultimate sin) since she’s ridiculously hot, she agrees again. But something with work came up AGAIN & she can’t make it (she’s a project manager). I go cold and reengage like a week later. Same plans, and I let her know since I’m leaving town it’s now or never.. put the pressure on her (I wasn’t really leaving but it doesn’t hurt to try this.. I wanted to gauge her investment). Her ONS concern pops up (I told her I’m deploying soon, which I am) which was the real concern.. I let her know I’ll still be in the area for a bit before I leave so we should link up & try to set plans up AGAIN.. she cancels boys. So I chalk her up as a flake & didn’t hit her up for another week. (If you’re still reading this patience is key here, you need abundance to not think about women too much, it helps a lot). From the blueprint.. when you get these situations don’t get your ego hurt and delete her number. Just wait. If you didn’t do anything wrong, and weren’t needy, you weren’t creepy, you flirted a bit, showed some value, etc.. there’s a good chance she will hit you up when shes get horny. You just have to capitalize. So she does hmu. I recognized that, we talk, I tell her my hectic schedule & tell her bye pretty much, I’ll see you in six months and we can try to link again. I really was over her lol, but this is the most investment I’ve got from her in 3 weeks of talking so I match it.

I shoot out a feeler text, no public date though, I tease her and say I’m not going straight to her place (I have to because my apartment is packed up) and that I’m a nun, blah blah blah. Let her know that I need chemistry to fuck, and I don’t fuck everyone bc I make women crazy. She says her place is messy, and that’s the last test she’s gonna give me I can feel it, that’s not gonna turn me away boys I’ve been waiting 3 weeks.. it’s all logistics after we exchange pics since I got banned on tinder.
LMR bit here
ALMOST DONE I SWEAR, I get to her place.. we drink & watch Netflix for like an hr. She asks me about being a sex coach, so I tell her and ease into sex talk and how women don’t cum as much as they need to and blah blah blah. I tell her how I can tell she likes being submissive & being choked, spanked, etc because she’s dominant and bossy in her day to day life, then I choked her lightly (feeling her legs, brushing her hair, strong eye contact the whole time before that). We start making out after, I feel her pussy, she stops me, okay cool, leave my hand on her thigh.. pull away & talk to her some more, make out and then I pulled her on top of me and it was a wrap after that. She came 10-15 times and had a great night. I hit her up today, just doing some rotation building & that’s it.

If you made it this far I hope I helped you out, this was my most extensive and last LR for about six months as I gear up for deployment. This was my best year with women by far (quantity AND quality) she was number 20 something I don’t even know at this point 🤣🤣. If you don’t have the blueprint yet. Go fucking get it. Thanks Alex, thanks IPE & thanks to everyone contributing here. Cheers.

~ Curt