How well do you think a short guy can do with online dating
I’ve been a fan of pwf for a while and I went from total incel to being able to get sex which was huge for me but the girls I get with are about 4/10s. I’m around 5’6/5’7, white, above average face, aiming to have a good body by summer and wanna see how far I can actually get if I really try hard when it comes to getting better pictures and improving my texting. I like Alex’s content because it gives me hope but I’ve just seen way too much content over the years that makes me feel like I can’t do better than a 4 or 5 because of my height
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im 5'9 but say 5'10 on tinder. I wear boots to the first date and have a body count of ~50 almost all through dating apps.
This was also in london where height is a huge deal. Ive only been rejected once for height when it wasnt in the profile and that was before we even went on a date.
If i were you id say 5'8 in your profile and wear boots to dates always. Ive got timbs and black leather boots. As Alex said you could try lifts too but personally im always worried that it might be an issue later (although lots of guys say it isnt.)
Contrary to popular belief it is better to be short and handsome than tall and ugly. Tall ugly girls will get more girls but they will be less attractive. Some baddies really dont care as long as you are taller than them and handsome.
Just dont get butthurt if she shit tests you on your height. That will always lead to a rejection. Just tease her about being tall or laugh it off.
Short guys are always like "Ugh well im actually 5'8 which is like the world average so im not that short" . That accomplishes nothing. Dont make a big deal about it and she probably wont either.
Remember its also herd mentality - girls always talk about wanting a tall guy and its ingrained in the media so often they feel like its just what they have to say. Once you have her on a date and you play your cards well it will be fine.
I mean I am average height and have no problems with quality and quantity. But I will say, doing day/night game yields better quality as the hottest girls online sometimes just look for / filter 6'+ as they get so many matches. Online game is still worth it 100% and you can get quality if pics/body/text game on point.
btw, if you go to south America you'll be average height and in South East Asia you'll would be above average in height.
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As well as a taller person. Just don't include your height in your bio and don't use pictures that make it easy to infer your height. Then It'll be up to your in person game and handling any shit you get about your height. Id even argue online dating is advantageous to shorter people since you wont immediately be filtered out by height.
just my 2 cents.
I haven’t been on the apps in a while but I think the big 3 require you put it. I used to put 5’8 and no girl has said anything but I wonder if hotter girls will care. I honestly just want a cute modest 6 or 7/10 white girl but my new strategy may be to go after Spanish girls because they care less
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Glad youre enjoying my content :). I personally know a guy who is 5 3 and he deff hooks up with girls hotter than a 5. At 5 7, I know multiple guys who crush it. Youre objectively slightly below average height. Thats not a huge deal. One hack you can do is get elevator shoes or lifts.. that'll give you an extra 2 or 3 inches when you go out. But yea dont get discouraged -- the guys who say shit like that typically are making themselves feel better for not getting results.