How to time this without ruining escalation
So I have an issue where when I’m banging a girl for the first time, I get overly excited and tend to finish way too quickly. I’m working on the excitement part, but in the meantime I’ve been using some numbing spray to compensate, which works great.
The problem is that I need to apply it pretty close to when we start making out for it to work effectively. But most of the girls in my area tend to be on the more conservative side, so it takes a lot longer to build sexual tension and escalate to the point that we’re making out, and I can’t really leave in the middle of that to apply it because then I’m leaving her alone for a minute or two and ruining the momentum. And that problem only gets worse if I do it later.
Is there a particular window to do this where it doesn’t ruin the momentum, but also isn’t too early?
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Interesting problem to have, maybe ejaculate before hand. Idk maybe someone else can help never had this, just staying hard lol
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Well. I would actually just jerk off before meeting her. You can count on getting hard again in an hour or so right? That time you can use on building tension, turning her on and what not
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Surprisingly that doesn’t help. Turns out the issue isn’t actually about not lasting long in general, but that I just can’t handle doggystyle specifically, no matter when I last finished. But doing any other position alleviates the problem.