How to respond when she starts talking about other guys

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Situation: there’s a girl I work with who I’m interested in seeing, but can’t date her now due to conflict of interest. I just flirt with her here and there until one of us leaves the job. She’s not a serious interest of mine but a ‘maybe if things line up’.

How should I respond when she’s starts talking about guys she’s seeing? Don’t want to get treated like the gay best friend, but also not making any moves rn. Just want to stay in the game

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No offense but this is a total "nice guy" strategy and it almost never works out. If you don't wanna make things happen with this girl now then just forget about her. She is treating you like "the gay best friend" because youve shown zero intent. She doesnt see you as a sexual threat and unless youre willing to make a move, that's how she will continue to treat you

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