How to respond when a girl says she is 'taking a break' from dating?
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I've had this happen a few times in day game where i'll be chatting to a girl, and when going for the close they'll say something about how they are not looking to date anyone right now or are not ready to date because they just had a recent break up etc.
Assuming the girl isn't just saying that to reject you, is there any good way of reframing that?
Example text that I got from a girl earlier from day game:
"Heya, as I said i'm going through a rough break up at the mo, so i'm not really ready for another relationship at the moment. But I wanted to say thanks so much for approaching me and being so sweet"... etc.
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Glad you asked this I’ve gotten the same response a few times and this always stumped me
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Well, assuming you're not looking to be in a long term relationship and going more for the casual hookup... it could be effective to make that somewhat clear to her. Sure, she doesn't want a relationship but maybe she could still be down for a hookup especially if she's fresh out of a relationship.
I would think you could still say something like "I'm not looking to jump into a long term relationship just yet. I'm just looking to meet a cool woman I have chemistry with. See where that takes things naturally." Could potentially add in some sort of of variation of sexual/flirting, maybe the "kinky sex and cuddles" line if it seems like it would be received well from her.
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"Appreciate the honesty. But I'm definitely not looking to get into something serious so quick. Perhaps you got the wrong idea?"
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In these interactions, do you FEEL as though there is attraction and interest from her?