How to respond to "What are you looking for on here"

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J

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So I've been talking to this girl for a couple days now and asked her what she was looking for on here. Wanted to get your all's thoughts on how I should respond. Was thinking about responding with "Oh, I would've never thought it was dirty" then separate message "Meet a cool girl I have chemistry with. Maybe some kinky sex & cuddles." However, I'm afraid the kinky sex and cuddles line may scare her off.

P.S. I'm not looking for a ONS, but something that could potentially form into a relationship.

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Utsav Biswas Avatar

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Go with " am looking for a cool girl i have connection and chemistry with, something casual at first but up for something serious if the vibe is organically developed and kinky sex and cuddles are bonus but no expectations."

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avilench . Avatar

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"A cool girl I have chemistry with. Someone I can see consistently and enjoy my time with. Good sex, great fun, laughs, good times. Open to something more with the right kind of woman. No hookups"

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