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Yeah man. That was a pretty poor response. Of course it's gonna trigger her to say something like that. I would just respond with "Is that your impression of me?"
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"When exactly did I say I was sleeping with many other women?"
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This is an example of how NOT to text. You had no reason to say you're looking for FWB. This puts you in a box and there's a good chance the girl gets turned off unless she's dripping wet thinking about fucking you. Alex has always suggested framing this text as "I'm looking for a cool girl I have chemistry with, maybe some kinky sex and cuddles"
Now you can tweak that based on your specific interaction but that's the general template.
Figure out whether it's related to STDs. Ask her "Why is that?"
In the future I would say don't mention any fwb. Just say "Just looking for someone I have chemistry with and go from there"
I sent her your response and she texted the next day with “oh I see”. I’m guessing she’s receptive to it then? Should I go for the soft close?
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And try to reframe it once she responds