How to respond to low interest (After 2 dates)

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I have made several mistakes throughout the interactions and need suggestions on how to revert them and get that back.
So for the backstory, I met this girl on Halloween, where she was interested and bought me a drink. We made out in the club, exchanged numbers but she didn't come back to my place. After that, we went on 2 dates, where the first one was good and the second one got got boring due to the club and live music we went to. However, that's no excuse, I could have made it more fun but didn't. The wrong thing I did in the dates is we made out quite a few times, but didn't hook up as she gave reasons like tired or skeptical to get back to my place. (Red flag, and also making out took out the sexual tension I believe) After the second date, I have observed low interest from her, very late replies. My text game was also sloppy recently. Did callouts but not that effectively.
She recently replied to my text after 2-3 days, how to respond back and move forward with this

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avilench . Avatar

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I mean. At this point, I would just set up the next date since she said she's looking forward to it. Make sure you close on the 3rd date though. Because Idk if you're gonna get a 4th chance

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I personally would wait a couple of days and re-engage like it never happened.

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