Hey Alex,
I recently matched with this girl on Tinder and she sent the first message and showed a lot of investment. She responded positively to the soft close and got her number but couldn't meet yet, so I hit her up about two days later responding to her story on Instagram (it was her buying new shoes) and then stops responding. What is the best way to re engage here? I have already used the 'Don't be shy" text on her before. I do have the skeleton meme or the 'Are you always this talkative" line as a back up, but is there any other suggestion? Thanks!
T
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The mistake you made here was just not texting her that or next day. If you can’t meet right away that’s ok, you can lock down something for later. Now you’re stuck on ig and if you text her it might be wierd, but I’d risk it. Just send her your name or an alternative approach is to hit her up on ig with “don’t worry, it’s not a trick question”
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Sorry if I wasn't clear. We did text the same day (I didn't send the screenshots for that). I sent her that on Instagram a couple days after we texted. Do you think it's still a good idea to send her tha trick question line or just reopen her over text instead? Thanks man
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Post last screenshot of text convo