How To Properly Chat/Banter Over Text & Handle Flaking
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I see a lot of guys struggle with either:
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Just getting to know a girl over text - They either come off too gamey/wierd, too boring, or uncalibrated when they go sexual
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Dealing with Flaking/Reschedules - They either push too hard and come off needy or give up too easy and lose leads
This is a good example, because I did banter with her a lot over text. I combined information exchange facts, humor, and sexualization in a smooth way. Then she flaked/rescheduled on me twice and you can see how I handled that as well to ultimately get the date with some non needy persistence
Hopefully, this example helps you apply both of these things to your own game
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I like how you bantered with her while only using rather short texts.
Something I need to practice more
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How do you respomd to seeing the message but no reply or very low unenthusiastic reply like 1 word answers?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Depends on the context man. Post the screenshots :)
Damnnnn the banter is just sweet and simple with the same premise in mind: trying to set the date but done in a smoooooth simple way. I guess all that complex witty banter shouldn't be as emphasized as we make it out to be!
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Yep exactly man. Lot of guys try to over complicate it and try to be unnecessarily witty, which actually hurts them
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Really nice control! What I can see over the text is that you were able to keep the conversation comfortable for her and didn't come off as needy in any moment, keeping her interest showing that she was the one who was wrong and you were the prize that she was losing!
Really good example, simple, honest and cool. That's a lesson! Being a little persistant is fundamental to increase your chances, sometimes they are not flakey, is just because some people have too much obligations.
Thanks for sharing with us, greaaaaaate value!
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Thanks man. You summed it up perfectly