20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)
What Jadon said.
I will add, that the part of the convo where she asks you for a pic is weird. Just send it to her. I know you don't want to fall into her frame. But it just looks/sounds weird.
The correct way of doing this is asking her to say please then send it.
11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)
My thing with the pic is the only quality pics of myself are already on my profile. I wasn't sure if I sent her one she'd already seen she'd say "No a different one" and then I'd have to take a lame selfie
20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)
That's why you have one pic that's not on your profile that you can send. Anyway, while you don't you can just send pic from your profile. If she complains you can give her shit bc she is so spoiled she wants everything or what ever
24 Posts (+98), 144 Cmts (+78)
You soft closed wrong.
You need to give the idea of hanging out first before you go for the soft close.
"Do you like wine"
"Yes"
"Let's split a bottle sometime"
It starts the compliance ladder. I'm imagining she's ignoring it because it came out of nowhere.
I would say:
"I just love wine, it's good for the heart. Do you?"
Just ignore her back.