So, to kick things off I wanted to thank Alex! By applying your principles and what you teach, I lost my virginity using Tinder, and I have other matches who I'll be likely meeting soon...
But the thing is... when it comes to sex I'm having performance anxiety, which comes as a surprise since I'm young (19) and as far as I know I don't have any health issues that could be affecting me.
It all started last weekend, I went to see this cute girl who I really vibe with. We had really good foreplay and I ate her out for a few minutes, but when the moment of penetration arrived, I noticed my penis wasn't up... luckily, after a while I managed to have an erection, but it wasn't as hard as it should've been, and to top things off I came really fast lol.
So, do you guys have any recommendations or advice?
Thanks!
17 Posts (+5), 49 Cmts (+8)
Well, I'll start by warning you to take my advice with caution, it's just what I would do in your situation.
Honestly, as a mid term aid for performance anxiety, I use two drugs, both of them legal in the U.S i believe (I'm not American). One of them is phenibut, it inhibits anxiety much like alcohol, but without the clumsiness and loss of coordination, it's pretty much the best "social drug" out there. (Read more about it to find out about dosages and stuff, handle with care).
And the second drug is the old blue pill, on a low dose of course. You can use this combo any time you need to get rid of performance anxiety
Also, for the problem with premature ejaculation, you can use a condom with benzocaine, or use benzocaine wipes, it will help you last longer
55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)
Why do you buy phenibut? Any recommendations?
17 Posts (+5), 49 Cmts (+8)
Helps getting in momentum, until you gain confidence and you don't need it anymore.
Basically helps you be your authentic self and gets rid of self doubt and anxiety. Dates go really well.
Just be careful and do research on dosages and days off or you'll have withdrawals
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Nice man. Glad to hear, in terms of that it could be any number of things
Could be anxiety, could be poor cardiovascular healthy, could be hormones, etc
See a good functional medicine doctor they’ll be able to give you a much better answer then me. In terms of lasting longer, Kratom has been a game changer for me
In relation to this subject - I've been having a pattern the past few girls I've been hooking up with, lasting too long and not cumming. It's a good problem to have but these girls like it when I cum for them as well.
Any suggestions?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yea man that is tricky. I sometimes have this issue too. Fucking without a condom helps. For me honestly the bigger the tits and the ass the more likely I am too cum. Wierd thing I’ve observed
10 Posts (+5), 24 Cmts (+4)
Go on nofap. Abstaining from constant masturbation and porn will give you stronger erections
15 Posts (+0), 61 Cmts (+18)
Stop watching porn.