The first interaction was kind of boring and lacked emotional engagement. The second one was a bit corny (at least in the beginning). I recommend you avoid pickup lines or lines in general, just sounds cliche and low value. However, the mistake that applies to both of these interactions is that after 1 to 2 attempts at a meetup you left the ball in her court. This will very seldom ever workout well. You never want to say things like "text me when your free" think about it, the girl is being hitup by dozens of guys why would she take the inititiative?
Instead, its much better to be the one that kind of dissapears on the girl and texts her a week later himself. Also, you can say things like "Pick a night" or something that forces her to make a decision. But, like I said earlier whatever you do don't leave the ball in her court when it comes to making plans.
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The first interaction was kind of boring and lacked emotional engagement. The second one was a bit corny (at least in the beginning). I recommend you avoid pickup lines or lines in general, just sounds cliche and low value. However, the mistake that applies to both of these interactions is that after 1 to 2 attempts at a meetup you left the ball in her court. This will very seldom ever workout well. You never want to say things like "text me when your free" think about it, the girl is being hitup by dozens of guys why would she take the inititiative?
Instead, its much better to be the one that kind of dissapears on the girl and texts her a week later himself. Also, you can say things like "Pick a night" or something that forces her to make a decision. But, like I said earlier whatever you do don't leave the ball in her court when it comes to making plans.