How to hold interest when you cant meet up

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Matched with her on Tinder. Had some good banter, got her number after passing some shit tests.
Got the soft close and on the hard close she came off flakey because she's getting smashed with Uni work but would let me know.
A day or so days go by and she confirms her schedule and said she can free up a few hours to hang out.
I prefer going out and doing something as opposed to eating/getting drinks but with the time constraint, I decided we'd go get some food and chat since we knew nothing about each other.
Had good banter in person, overall I think it went well.
She reached out after the date and thanked me and we've been texting back and forth (within reason).
I brought up a second date and she said she's interested, but timing wise she's busy for the next week, if not fortnight with her assignments then exams.

Im not phased with that, but after watching some of Alex's videos I was thinking I'd cut back on the texting and message every few days and talk a bit of shit until her schedule clears up. I also dont know if this is a shit test or if I am being too anal and overthinking this?

TIA.

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I don't think it's a shit test dude. I would just offer to meet for the following week then. And yeah. Have a little bit of back and forth to keep the conversation warm

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