Hey fellas,
I've run into this issue a few times now where we get the ball rolling with some good opens and banter, but as I try to take the next step, she doesn't seem to bite. Here are a few examples from different chats. I'm going to wait a couple days before trying to spark things up again, but curious what the fellas might say about this.
With Jasmine is particular, I feel like giving her a couple days to sit (and maybe think about me) before hiting her with this: "Hope today is the day you hmu to try and do sum n see."
Tell me what you think and what improvements could be made.
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4 Posts (+5), 38 Cmts (+2)
With jasmine you went from flirty to daddy dom with in one message, maybe let it escalate slower
With Rylee you showed more investment than her objectively and soft closed on your third message
I think you mistake flirty as actual intent from the girls and "blow your load" too quickly. Get her to invest, play cat and mouse a little more. If you can feel a connection between you two she probably does as well. If you can't at all it's unlikely she'll put out. Maybe be a little less gamey as well.
5 Posts (+0), 68 Cmts (+29)
In my opinion your messages are a bit too gamey and you show far more investment than the chick. Keep messages short, smth like 'I like the potentially submissive look'. I'd reengage with 'don't be shy now'
8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)
Yeah, I agree with Cedric, too many emojis holy shit bro and liking all her messages, relax. The gameness/length of the text messages is really over-amplified as well. Keep it short and sweet, especially for your openers. Your text game needs a lot of work and I would highly recommend watching Alex's videos on the PlayingFire Yt channel.
For Ashley, I would rengage with "Don't think too hard"
For Rylee, I would rengage with "If you're into that sort of thing..."
For Amanda, I would rengage with "Don't think too hard"
For Jasmine, I would rengage with "Don't go shy on me.."
For Emmaline, I would rengage with "If you're into that sort of thing.." - Probably should have found a better way of mentioning her friend lmao