536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
I wouldn’t have called her out on sass that quick, and you’re also sexualizing with the way you did it which can be good if you’ve had some good flirty banter beforehand. After she said “yes it is” I would have probably said something like “Fake news” or something
I would have added “Don’t worry, it’s not a trick question” the don’t worry lightens it up and makes it feel more like a fun tease.
11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)
This is a real good note. Thanks dude
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Yw bro. Another way of calling out sass is “Hope you’re this sassy in person”
“Oh sassiness already I see ;)”
“So sassy 😏”
“So sassy. Bring more of this to our date”
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
"it was a statement not a question. Based on your photos of course. Unless your pics are doctored. Are they?"
11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)
Don't know if this would change your answer but her profile is not sexual at all. Selfies in her room, camping, boating.
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Ah ok. I'm getting time waster vibes. LTR only vibes. There's no reason for a woman who wants sex to not put anything remotely sexual in even one photo. That's been my experience with flakes, they tend to be super modest in their profile.
If I really wanted to make it work with a chick like this I'd probably go sell the dream mode, and where you have some kinda background with her, talk about how you always found her attractive etc
9 Posts (+15), 447 Cmts (+389)
"Id rather know the answer to my previous question"
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
Good response here. Seems effective at doing several things.
Additionally, I would also suggest to avoid adding a statement followed by a question all in the same message. You did it twice.
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
I am curious about your second paragraph regarding not following a statement with a question. I get that you want her to invest without being promoted with a question, but you also want to offer value in your messaging so she doesn't get bored or disinterested with you unnecessarily. But I'm open to your thoughts on this.
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Agreed.
11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)
I'll try to be more succinct
11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)
Beauty, thanks Jan