How to follow up/re-engage
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3 Cmts
4y ago
I met this girl on Halloween, and had a good vibe with her, and made out in the club and exchanged numbers (posted this before, but this is a follow up to it)
Hey, so I replied and we had a thing going. However, she hit me with the "red flag" thing. I am good with that and anyways am not looking for just a one-off thing with her, however I am not sure about my reply to it and my banter. Any suggestions or feedback would be great.
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6 Posts (+10), 188 Cmts (+18)
Hmmm, your texting game kind of wasn’t that bad. I guess at the end you just seemed too invested. Watch more of Playing With Fire’s videos on reengaging, I’d say wait 3 days to a week and see what happens. If not, then I guess the conversation is just dead and to move on.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
You went way too logical and justified yourself. when she said Red flag, you should have said "Red flag? Why". This is a lost cause now. But you can still send "If you're too shy, I'd totally understand"