How to end this long saga before first date?

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I matched with a woman on Hinge about a month ago. We’ve been texting consistently and she originally suggested meeting, but at the time I was busy and couldn’t.

Since then, it’s been a lot of “let’s talk soon,” “maybe call,” “I’m sick,” “I’m too busy,” “I got COVID,” etc. Lots of maybes and delays.

I’ve tried pulling back and saying things like:

“Let me know when you’re free and we can meet.”

But she keeps texting without actually committing.

She did show interest early on, so part of me thinks she wants to meet, but another part feels like I’m stuck in texting limbo.

At this point I’m losing interest, but I’d like to handle this cleanly and confidently.

What’s the best move here?

  • One final clear invite?
  • Or just stop engaging?

If one last message makes sense, what would you recommend?

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I would need tto see the last few screenshots of your convo bro

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