Hey guys, made plans with this girl off Hinge to smoke weed (screenshots attached). She was very responsive and invested, but when it came to the actual date, she gave an excuse that her car was broken and went silent. Reengaged a few days later, again she seemed down to reschedule, then she went silent and flaked again. She responds a few days later saying she "wasn't feeling good that day". Not sure where to go from here - seems like a time waster, but is there any way to bring this back? She's 21, so I was thinking of going with "Your lack of respect for my time is a turn off. You seem a little inexperienced."
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
she doesnt seem like a time waster, just a young girl whos mood changes often. Your purposed text would be way to harsh and would likly blow out the lead. I would respond with soemthing like "sorry to hear" keep it simple. the goal is to get her to start chasing a little bit, but if that doesnt work after a few days then you can always reengage again.
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Nah don’t go with that bro I’d say something like “ah sorry to hear, feeling better?” And then banter for a bit and then say something like “how long until you’re back in action?” Then you can go for logistics again. If she flakes another time I’d hit her with “Look, if you’re not into this just lmk and I can stop trying”
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Thanks for the advice bro. I always struggle between playing it cool and not being a pushover. Guess it's something that I'll develop naturally with more experience.
90 Posts (+21), 349 Cmts (+123)
For sure bro