How to confirm with this girl.
First off, I really appreciate PWF's work. This community has really helped solidify my game.
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This girl is down to chill in on Friday. She gave me her number and I just liked the message because I didn't feel like texting at the time. I know some girls will ghost before you as a defense mechanism to avoid getting their feelings hurt.
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I don't want her to lose interest though so how should I text to show the appropriate investment? Friday I'll text for sure to confirm but what should I send in the meantime if we already agreed to hang out.
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I was thinking of texting "Hey its Xavier from Alcoholics Anonymous, wanted to confirm our meeting on Friday" since she joked that she's an alcoholic. Would it be better to send a more "low investment" text?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I would’ve texted her after getting the number man. Just text her now “hey it’s Xavier from the thing”
If she already said she's down for drinks Friday, wouldn't anything more be overkill?
I thought you've said to banter enough to get a date then keep the rest for logistics. Why is it not recommended to wait until Thursday to hit her up and confirm?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Because she doesnt even have your number, if you wait until Thursday there’s a good chance she’ll completely forget
11 Posts (+22), 395 Cmts (+179)
Lol. Start by “Hey it’s ________ from the thing”. From there just regular banter, checking how they’re doing. Be chill, maybe mix in a voice memo.
Cheers bro
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So she gave her number... did you text her?
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Nah, she already said she's down to chill for a drink so I don't want to drag it out more than necessary. I was just going to text her Friday to confirm for that night. If she already agreed to a date what more is there to say?
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The date is on Friday that’s to far away to not message her. You need to talk a little with her through out the week or good chance she will cancel on you Friday