First off, I really appreciate PWF's work. This community has really helped solidify my game. This girl is down to chill in on Friday. She gave me her number and I just liked the message because I didn't feel like texting at the time. I know some girls will ghost before you as a defense mechanism to avoid getting their feelings hurt. I don't want her to lose interest though so how should I text to show the appropriate investment? Friday I'll text for sure to confirm but what should I send in the meantime if we already agreed to hang out. I was thinking of texting "Hey its Xavier from Alcoholics Anonymous, wanted to confirm our meeting on Friday" since she joked that she's an alcoholic. Would it be better to send a more "low investment" text?
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The date is on Friday that’s to far away to not message her. You need to talk a little with her through out the week or good chance she will cancel on you Friday
13 Posts (+6), 39 Cmts (+7)
What he said!!! I have had hundreds of girls like this, with low investment chats which agree to meet, but they will all flake unless you put in some more work. you should qualify her a bit , and make her invest.
6 Posts (+5), 52 Cmts (+7)
just text one of your profile pics and no words so she knows its you. she may respond in kind with a new pic.
also one thing you can do is think a few steps ahead. expect her to make an excuse between now and then and have a response ready. expect some last minute resistance, and be ready. expect no response from her when you do text, and be ready. and if i'm wrong and none of that happens, prepare to band the fuck out of her. cheers!
32 Posts (+14), 84 Cmts (+20)
I agree. I still haven't texted the number she gave me because I was planning on texting Thursday night to banter and confirm for Friday. Is that not enough?
I've had other girls send me memes and chat throughout the week before a date, but here it's more on me since I'm the one with her number. There isn't much to talk about other then to maybe plan our meet up later, which would be redundant.
32 Posts (+14), 84 Cmts (+20)
I was going to hit her up through text Thursday night to banter a bit and confirm for Friday.
This usually works but I see what you mean. Is that not enough?