How to ask to bang again?
4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)
Banged this girl from my social circle a few times already. Every time I’ve done so, it’s been when we’ve all hung out as a group and I took her home.
Now I’m looking to smash but without hanging out with our friends. Been play texting with her every so often but I’m not sure how to go about it.
I play banter a bit and I know I have to move things forward, but how direct should I go?
Should I ask her what she’s up to tonight?
Should I soft close her to hang out first?
Should I send her a sensual meme and say “this could be us tonight”
Thanks!
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60 Posts (+4), 114 Cmts (+26)
You’re asking for permission to pull the trigger. Pull it. Tell her you’re up to x y a tonight, and she should join you. If she says ok, gg, If she says no. You know where you stand. If she says she’s busy and gives an alternative that’s ideal also.
4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)
Damn, I needed to hear this. Thank you.
I can get this way because of indecision.
8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)
As far as texting her it should be standard practice. Maybe avoid the heavy sexting and gaminess because you've already smashed but follow the same rules as always when texting her. Vibe some more and then soft close with a simple "Do you like wine?"
As for your reply, I would go with "Oh so I'm the one that brings it out in you..." or "I must bring it out in you then..;)"
11 Posts (+22), 395 Cmts (+179)
Bro, so I wouldn’t go down this conversation thread. You want to avoid triggering “buyer’s remorse”. Make a flirty comment & then pivot.
Or...
“It’s ok. I can teach you ;)”
follow up with “how to be innocent like me”
4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)
Oh, I haven't heard of "Buyers Remorse" before. In this context what do you mean by that?
If I were to take a guess is that its too flirty and it never hits the vibe stage.