Hey guys! So there’s this girl in my class who maybe likes me cause a couple classes I notice she looks at me for more than a couple seconds but lately I noticed her stop doing that. I don’t want to jump to conclusions but I want to see if she likes me by asking her out for coffee. Only problem is she’s always with her friends and whenever she shows up to class it’s 2 minutes before so I never get to even talk to her. And when lecture is over we all work in our project groups so can’t talk to her much after class either. How can I go about asking her out when I don’t have a lot of opportunities to talk to her. Also please don’t just say “ask her out” or “man up” as obviously that’s easier said than done. But still appreciate any advice as I’m tired of trying but failing.
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Just use what little time u have between when she gets there and when class starts. U could even tease her for it - u could be like "wow someone's cutting it close, u must like living on the edge".
Why can't u talk to her after ur done working in ur project groups??
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there's gotta be some point where she's by herself but if that doesn't exist then you can go up to her when she's with her friends. Don't go straight into it, banter and flirt first but after a minute or two totatlly ask her out. She's either gonna say yes or no and her friends being there wont change much
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What about during lunch? Ask her how is her project going and take it from there. You also want to do it as soon as possible, as both of you looking each other without talking after doing it for days might be a bit weird.
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I’m in grad school so we don’t really have a lunch period
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If that's the case then talk to her while friends are being there. You could dm her on ig, but that is the last resort