why'd you ask if shes a fatty? it's pretty cringe imo
Her photos didn’t show her body. And I’d whether find out that go on a date and be disappointed.
I agree. Pretty crude and socially uncalibrated. A better way would be to say catfish instead.
A lot of these lines are just not ideal and would get you blown out with hotter, more savvy girls. i.e. explicitly stating that you're after great sex & cuddles.
The bottom line is you have been too soft when it comes to punishing her flake and too available. When she flaked the first time, a better line would have been "Fine but next time I might have to spank you for it". "Breaking my heart" is WAY too soft, it only works as a validation strip if you are very high value otherwise it just looks soft and needy. You immediately offer the reschedule after she disrespected your time- coming off too eager and available.
The second time when you call her out for flaking, you cant really blame her. You guys didnt make any solid plans. Nevertheless, you call her out, she reframes it as her being hard working and you reward and accept that frame. You didnt say anything about being able to make time despite that. Basically telling her its ok to flake on you. You say after "make time for our love" this is a positive expression, you're still rewarding her despite her flaking on you.
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You're sorta accidentally setting the romantic frame when the girl is clearly dtf.
"Unless you cannot handle multiple screaming oral orgasms". Basically go for broke
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I like that but what if I can’t actually do that when the time comes. Does it matter