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I texted with a girl on Instagram and i managed to get her to hangout with me 2 times till now. I haven't had sex yet, but we did the other things... and also she is super down for that because our sexualisation is really good. But i also want this girl to be my girlfriend because our personalities are the same and love same things. But when i started to think this way the girl started to invest a little less and i started to get into arguments for bullshit things. I know that that childish things are very boring and won't help me, like "why you don't love me", "why you don't call me" and etc... that kind of things are like that because if she doesn't call me i think she doesn't think on me and that scarcity mindset things. Can you guys tell me how to continue with this situation? Thanks!
Sounds like you're getting needy and it's turning the girl off. Don't focus on getting her to call you or show you validation. You shouldn't need that as a man. Instead focus on first having sex. That is the first step to any relationship. Once that happens, then she's gonna be a lot more invested in you
Thank you man!
if you're saying that you are actually saying things like "why you don't call" after 2 get togethers, that's an issue that we can resolve. You're going to have to have multiple women, otherwise all your emotional energy will point toward her. Sometimes you gel with a girl and things seem perfect, but you gotta remember that you are an emotional dude and to protect yourself from those emotions you need more chicks. Basically different chicks damn near every day. Those other women will distract you from that feeling of neediness and then you will start embodying that feeling of not needing a woman. Then you'll be equipped to pull back effectively when you need to.
