We've all been there man. I already slightly sexualize things via text, then when i meet a girl in person im fun but just very normal for the 1st 15-20min. After she sees that im a cool/normal guy i slowly start sexualizing a bit more. If you do that and shes interested then really any excuse to go back to ur place will work.
I personally just start talking about my 2 cats, say that she should meet them and that i bet anything the cats wont let her pet them cuz they only let me do it. All girls say "animals love me im sure they will let me pet them" and im like "okey the challange is on lets go find out" 90% of the time girls will say "ok lets"
A souple times i also said "lets go for a drink at my place im thirsty" and most were down but a few said why not go to a bar and im like "cuz the drinks are free at my place and are way too overpriced at bars" then they agree and go with me .
Hope this helps at least a bit, gl bro!

This should help you. https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-have-sex-on-first-date/

All of these answers are great and you could go with any advice given so far. Something I like to do is say things that get her imagining being at my place. If you can get her to visualize being there over the course of a 2-hour date, then that gives her 2-hours to get used to the idea vice brining it up in the last 5mins of the date. Even though she could be sexually attracted to you, she has no idea what area of town/what kind of living space she is going to walk into if she comes home with you. Coach Kyle has some great videos on this idea of getting the girl to visualize going where you want her to go next.

Best of luck 🤞

So back in fall/winter 2019/20 right before the pandemic, in a major US city bar I frequented, I would literally just say either "wanna go back to my place?" like it was nothing, or "what are you up to now....I was thinking about going back to your place for some action" and it worked almost every time. I was a 15 minute Uber ride away from the city. The girls almost never said "yes!" but they paused, either gave me a look or subtly nodded yes....assume the deal and offer value, and this works excellent. For small towns, it doesn't work as well bc of ridiculous slut shaming dynamics, can confirm.

For myself I watched some Austen Summers and apply the technique of seeding the pull. Basically through text before the date I'll mention the typical semi private beach date (my preference), then will say "and if the vibe is good we'll add wine & a movie" or "and if the vibe is good I'll show you my guitar skills" (if she mentions ed sheeran since I'm a redhead) which implies going back to mine. You just don't want it to be all sudden where you're like "ok let's go back to mine" without context on the date because it comes out of nowhere. So then on the date I will bring up specific topics on purpose (or she might ask about it too, even better) like what movies she's seen, and I'll be like "Damn that sounds cool I've never seen that. We'll have to watch that later" and maybe reference it again later. Then I will say later "We should go back to the car" since it's cold out and we vibe there for a bit. I'll escalate and makeout and then tell her let's go. Basically trying to make it a smooth progression. By seeding and leading a bit on the date (changing locations to go back to car she gets used to you leading) she'll be more ok when you say to go to yours.

I personally like dates that are semi-private. I use local beach at the end of some random neighborhood that is technically public but not many people go, so it's comfortable for her that it's public but private enough where it can be just us and throughout the date she'll get used to being alone with you. Then your place is just a change of scenery/location, she's already used to being alone with you