How do you guys approach second and third dates
I have no issues getting a first date lay and normally have a good time with the girl but somewhere between the second and third date I normally get "I'm not looking to date right now" the reasons have been anything from a lack of trusting me, to not feeling good enough.
I normally don't text the girls too much in between and carry on running game but wonder if showing more interest might be a better policy
It's impossible to say based on this information but I will say though that if a girl says "I'm not looking to date right now" she was either looking just for a ONS or she got the vibe you were looking for an actual relationship.
What types of dates do you normally do with these girls?
Why would me looking for a relationship be an issue? One of these girls I’m referring to asked me on the first date if I saw her romantically and I said no, she then said it can grow in time etc.
Date wise I always do a fuck date at mine for the first and if I get on with them I’ll take them for a drink on the second.
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I don't think it's that. I think it's just lack of attraction on the girl's part. There's something you're doing that's making them lose attraction/interest
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One of these girls, in person we fucked 8 times on the first night. By the day of the second date neither of us had made an effort to confirm plans and I got a missed call followed by that message. I said ‘don’t be stupid we clicked’ and we ended up seeing each other. Do you think the losing interest is happening over text between dates