Sup fellas,
So I matched with a girl, had a relatively short convo (see pictures below) and moved to instagram, on IG went for a close about a romantic date, she said she's down but that her schedule is a bit chaotic because of her work, I told her she could use some stress relief and asked how her how her weekends look like and that I'm free starting wednesday.
She responds with:
"I don't know maybe we could meet ill tell u on friday if we're still in touch"
So my question is what do I respond to this, also how do I generally proceed with this? Should I keep messaging over the week or just message her again on friday?
Also i'm relatively new to texting for tinder and such so if you could rate/give some tips on my text game while you're at i'd like that
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I would respond to her last message with "you don't sound confident" basically you call out her lack of commitment. In terms of texting the one big advice I have for you is to move things over to text/whatsapp never over to social media, generally it'll be a waste of your time
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Alright, she responded with "I am but that depends on you too haha". I guess I just respond with 'true, we'll see on friday' and then try to make things happen then?
Also yeah that is true the problem is that with my age group (19) few like to go to texting/whatsapp and instead object when you ask for number and give the IG instead
Thanks for the help!
118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)
I wouldn’t haven’t spoken any Spanish to her and said something along the lines of her waiting to hear it on the date. Even if that’s all you can say by the time your on the date it may or may not come up, at which point you confidently finesse past it in some charming way
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Yeah that makes sense, rest is fine though?
also not entirely sure how to approach her latest message on IG
118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)
I usually go with “where you from originally” or “what’s your ethnicity” for the investment building, as you see, guessing can go wrong.