Im getting friend zoned too often.
I’d like to find out how I can set sexual intent from the start. I think I may have a problem with talking to girls and being too friendly so they assume I just want to be friends.
I have no interest in being friends with a girl unless we’re going to be friends and also have sex.
Both for in person and text game, how do I say I want to be fuckbuddies or I want to hookup with the greatest chance of her being receptive? Not “be friends”. Not a long term relationship.
I could do it in an obvious and direct way but that seems to turn them off.
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Hey man. I actually have an article/video on this. It's called how to become more alpha. Check it out. It will definitely help you :)
When you get their number you can ask them to send you some pics to see if their thick. Pretty easy
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When has this ever worked lmao.. No, do not ask them for nudes or pictures of any kind, it's creepy and weird. I was in a similar situation myself and the way I usually do things now is to banter and SEXUALIZE.
That to me was the most important thing I was missing, if you make inappropriate jokes, misinterpret things and sexualize the convo, as well as bantering, it's a good way of showing intent without telling her straight up you want to smash. Depending on how she responds to the sexualizing etc. you can calibrate or move forward. You don't need to start straight-up sexting a girl to show intent.
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No do not do that. Go to the playing with fire YouTube channel and search up how to sext a girl. Everything u need to know about sexting is there.
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Common problem. To your point of turning them off by being direct, you want to get comfortable balancing between the right amount sexual topics and directness and turning them off. Trust me, while you’re learning and building momentum, going full retard is much better than being the nice guy who’s afraid to “try turn them off” over time you’ll get MUCH better at calibration, and how much you need for every particular girl