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So I matched with this absolute 10 on tinder. I feel like the convo was going well, then maybe I could have done a better close but I assumed too soon that she was interested. She hasn’t replied in 2 days.
I know Alex uses it sometimes, but I hate the "what are you looking for question". First, because they get asked that question way too often already, and you never want to do what other guys are doing. Second, a lot of the times girls want a boyfriend, but are down to fuck as well. Sometimes, they just want to fuck, but don't want to sound like a slut. Asking that question forces them to go from flexible to rigid. And then you responded with what you were looking for, and she didn't like your answer. She read between the lines and said "he just wants to fuck". She's lost now, tbh. She's too hot and has too many options to be able to recover from that.
Facts! I use the “what are you looking for on here” and maybe 50% or more stop replying
As a side note, there isn't a lotta vibing you did here and went for a very poor softclose strategy
"Or carrier pigeons will do?"
