How can I get her to respond again
Met up with this girl on my college campus on 2 different occasions. The second time we hung out I took her on a smoothie date then invited her back to my dorm for a movie. She agreed and we had sex that night. After laying with her I told her that I wasn’t looking for anything serious and pretty much completely shut down the idea of any potential for a relationship (bad timing on my part). I asked her what she was looking for and she hesitated and seemed like she was dating with the intention of something more long term (again bad timing on my end for asking that). After that night we continued texting and she seemed pretty open to the idea of getting to know me better. Unfortunately after these messages I haven’t heard from her. I’m sure I looked needy which caused her to fall back. She had very high interest. It was VERY evident in her body language, receptivity ,and many other things. Is there any way for me to rekindle this or should I leave her alone? The last thing I want to do is continue to seem needy . It’s been about a month or more since that last message
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That massage line is not great brotha. To her, it's reading as a sleezy way to get laid again. If you had made it more clearly a joke, it might have flown? What did you say in that voice memo?
Yeah just made a joke about her car saying her car finally has all its limbs back. Just an inside joke because she broke her car handle
And you’re right it was a terrible line. Funny thing is it actually did happen. I actually did go to the ER and I actually did want female company. Any suggestion on how I can rekindle? Or should I just let this one go
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I dont think this is needy just wordy (nothing wrong with that necessarily). If anything maybe she didnt respond becuase its subtly sexual and she didnt want to fuck? that or shes was busy. I would treat this like how you traet any girl going silent. Maybe hit her with the alien's line "I'm worried that you've been abducted by aliens" or do a call back. Just re-engage basically, its been a month
Another line: "Im going into battle and I need you, Its been a month"
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exactly. she 100% thought you just wanna fuck again and that this was all just an excuse to ger her to your room. use the aliens line