How can I convince a girl to come to my place?
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5y ago
Howdy partners! How can I put a girl at ease to coming over to my place? Not gonna lie, that’s the hardest part. Most of the time they want to go out first, which I don’t mind but they always live hella far from me, like 20 miles or further. So should i get her on the phone and try to put her mind at ease or what? Your advice is very much appreciated fellas.

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Don't just accept it when a girl tells you 'no' to a date at your crib the first time, get to the root of the objection. Alex addresses this a ton in his vids. Get a go-to bar near your place so when the objection is that she will only meet in public, then the logistics of pulling are good. Seed the pull over text. I go with "let's meet at ____ for a drink. I live close, so if there's vibe, we can snuggle up for a movie". This is only after she has rejected going straight to my place for a drink and hasn't budged on my objection handling.