This is the second convo I've had since getting into the PFW world. The first one is going really well, but she's making it easy. This chick is low investment. I know I'm too high, but I have a difficult time staying motivated otherwise. I'm honestly not even into her, just need the practice. Really close to just unmatching and moving on.
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your self-analysis is correct. she won't invest if you're sending her blocks of text over and over. stick to short and simple. you come off as trying way too hard.
your motivation should be to get her on a date, reframe your thinking. practice with chicks you're not into is fine, keep making mistakes and learn from them. it's pointless if you make the same mistake over and over though.
a good learning tactic is to write the text, read it a few times, and then trim it to only the necessary words or sentence(s). less is more
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Some good flirty stuff and we fame, just make your messages shorter and less gamey
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Thanks for responding. It makes it feel like I'm not alone. Got tired of obsessing about it and unmatched her. Wasn't really attracted anyway.I've not been able to push myself into cold approaching and looking to OLD to save me. There just seems to be too many rules to consider; constantly. This shit has costed me so much: time, energy, and money I'm starting to think I am just not meant to be with anyone, I'd be happy with anyway. Again, thank you so much for responding. Means a lot.