So nothing too complicated but would be good to know what to do here.
So girl I matched with on tinder, moved it to IG, there seemed to be decent amount of attraction, soft closed and when it came to closing a date she had an objection basically saying she's really busy atm with projects, I respond with:
- "Sounds like you need some stress relief"
- "I'm busy too, though i'm sure we could both find a couple hours if we really wanted to".
She leaves it on seen. 5 days later (now) I sent the classic "If you're nervous, I'd totally understand"
She answers with "I'm nott nervous i'm not looking for a datee ahahaha that's whyy"
I'm just like wtf, she had previously said 'ok romantic date sounds good ahahah' and seemed kinda into it, anyway how do you handle this kind of thing?
Another quick question, a 10/10 girl I matched with on tinder who I opened with "Hey, can I be honest" and she just responds with "yeah" I then send "You're just my type ;)" and she answers "Lucky me then" like 24 hours later. How do you even reply to this? How do you get a girl like this to invest? Or is she just a time waster?
Anyway thank'yall really appreciate all the help!
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For the second “don’t sound too excited”
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I actually sent her a message like 10mins before you posted here and it was "don't get too excited now" and "I mean what if you're secretly crazy, would have to find out first"
not sure about the 2nd one but pretty similar first message, the 2nd one is to hopefully start a convo
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For the first girl you have to figure out if it’s because she is dtf or she is focusing on herself, I might say “is it cause I’m ugly” hopefully she says no and then provides an explanation
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"Don't worry. Grabbing a casual drink is not a date. Hope you don't get serious that quick"
"Oh yes. Are you originally from around here?" for the 10/10