Hinge date - is "busy" - context

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J

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J

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Yo guys,

So after fucking around near 60 women now, I'm wanting to tie my life with another person and get a gf tbh. I've been running relationship game after moving city, I'm much less interested in fucking and would rather only sleep with them after 2-3 dates. When I just go for sex, the relationships always seem to end up toxic, focused about sex (while very important I don't think you can form a healthy relationship on lust). So yeah it's never good for long term running fuck game all the time.

The context you're waiting for, I met this cute girl on Hinge - we went for a bottle of wine at a local bar last weekend. Date went good I'd say, got to know each other, flirting and then after the bottle of wine she wanted to go as her dog needed to be let out or something.

A week has passed. I do actually want to go to an art gallery to relax from studying, so I sent her an invite like "I'm thinking about going to an art gallery sometime, do you want to come with?" - and she replies 2 days later with a "thank you for the offer just I'm really busy at the moment I don't know how much time I'm gonna have"

Not sure how to reply to this one given the context. Obviously she has a few hours in the week to come to art gallery (she is even an art student) so it feels like she's politely rejecting me or something, but I also kinda feel its a shit test from her given the other good responses to see how much I'm invested in her too, and whether I'm gonna cause a huge breakdown by her being too busy.

How would you respond here? Plus any third-party advice is helpful here

Cheers.

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J

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Try and get her to be more specific. She obviously knows her on schedule, so maybe she has an exam or papers due soon? Once she says the busy time, schedule something for after.

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avilench . Avatar

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"I'm quite busy myself. But I'm sure we can find time for a couple hours for a casual drink and banter"

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