1&2- met this girl on Hinge and we had a pretty good back and forth.
Transitioned to her # and she was out of town over the weekend.
She got back Sunday night and we went for bubbletea. I had to take a piss so I we ended up going back to her place so I could use the washroom.
We made out a bit and I tried to escalate more but she had work early morning and showed me out.
Tried to go for the 2nd date and she tells me this. How would you handle it?

3rd image and different girl- been texting her back and forth for a month and go for the wine and # close and she messages this. How to respond as well?