Help text - Girl shit tests, adversarial frame
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12 Cmts
4y ago *
Update: I said "Stop it you're starting to turn me on now". She replied "men are too easy".
Think maybe I should call her out on her bratty behavior, maybe "Do you always act like a brat" or "You're cute when you try to act tough"
Original post
All in the screenshots. We have an adversarial frame now. Yes I said "If you're too nervous, I'd understand" but it wasn't really as a takeaway but instead to troll. So I'm just sending more troll texts. I probably shouldn't have escalated on the non-compliance after the shower thought.
Thinking of saying,
"Stop it you're starting to turn me on now" or
"Are you gonna be sassy with me now"
Or just take her text at face value and misinterpret that she does actually think I'm fun
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0 Posts (+0), 259 Cmts (+153)
You just can't be escalating when she's being non-complliant. Bad bad game. She was non-compliant to your cold read and you rewarded her by seeding a date. She doesn't reply to your message and you again reward her non-compliance with a date. Start understanding the basics of game/social dynamics- rewarding/punshing/compliance rather than randomly spitting out lines and routines.
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She's the brat type, so the entire interaction is trolling her
0 Posts (+0), 259 Cmts (+153)
Oh so your second line was just you trolling her too. Definitely not rationalising suboptimal game. Btw trolling is not the way to deal with a brat, you can troll when the interaction is lost but not before.