Have I really screwed this up? and what should I do?
As per the title. I was doing okay with this chick on bumble and was able to get her number. But since then, I feel like it's started to go downhill. Would appreciate if someone can give me some help on how I can revive this convo? Was thinking of saying "So give me the basics then... Any pets? tattoo? good kisser?." Any help is appreciated
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15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
You need to create more investment from her. She seems genuinely interested and communicative.
You’ve mention the date 3 times already. Other than that the conversation has been boring.
11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)
Gotta be careful here or you'll end up in a text buddy situation. Could say something like "I totally understand where you're coming from, and I find you get to know someone much better in person than endlessly texting"
What do you reckon I should do here? I was thinking “ I’ll tell you. But before then, give me the basics. Etc”?
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11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)
Do the "I'll ask you 3 questions you ask me three questions" thing
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
"We could. But I realized in person getting to know is 10x more effective than behind a phone screen"