Got laid last night. What should I text her the next day?

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T

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T

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Background; we used to talk and I wanted relationship, but she rejected me. She hit me up last night on Hinge and I messaged her and we met up that night and fucked. She lives across the globe and is flying out in a couple l days.

I’d be open to meeting with her again but think she’s busy.

These are some ideas for example messages:

  1. Last night was 🔥 enjoyed seeing you
  2. Did you get home safe ? (She drove 30 minutes home at 3 am)
  3. Some type of call back humor related to this YouTube comedian Nathan For You - we watched a video where he sold poop flavored ice cream to people

Let me know!

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B

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cant go wrong with number 1

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T

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My roomate said to just leave it, don’t text her, make her miss you then hit her up again when she’s back in town. Thoughts?

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B

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I would go with Last night was 🔥. without the good seeing you. not buying into her too much. I think thats what Alex would advise.

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Davis B Avatar

41 Posts (+235), 354 Cmts (+209)

I used to do. Yesterday was 🔥. But now that I’ve matured. It just makes it look like you’re in a for the gooch. You should’ve told her to text you when she got home. I would take this approach moving forward. This is just what I used to do. Personally. It makes them feel safe and comfortable. And that you truly did appreciate and care for the time that you spent together that day or that night. If you guys want some LR’s lmk. Those posts are hard to make and take time. LMK.

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J

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Those LR’s would be useful for the forum. Good looking out.

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avilench . Avatar

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Don't over complicate it man. you're getting super needy clearly. "Last night was " is fine

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D

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1 is the best.
2 is fine.
3 is no.

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T

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P.s.... My brother lives near her and I’m planning a trip to visit him in couple months - and she told me to hit her up

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