Got deleted - Over sexualised or not enough comfort?
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3 Cmts
4y ago
Hey screenshots attached, I didn’t screenshot the last bit so copied below. After my last message asking for her number she deleted me the next day. For reference the chat was at around 11pm. Not sure if I fucked up somewhere or just a bit of a time waster.
Me: "We can discuss over drinks"
Her: "Mhm ok"
Me: I’ll need your number
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The issue here isn't that you were too forward. She was all about that. It's just that your last text was pretty weak. I would have said "By bending you over, grabbing a fistful of your hair and slap your ass until I leave a handprint. See the difference there?"
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How do you avoid the trap of this just turning into sexting? Seems like she was horny at 11pm and the next day wasn't into it anymore.
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Cheers guys, I agree with your comment Alex although ironically the reason I didn’t go too explicit was because I didn’t want to oversexualise.
I should say she replied "Mhm ok" immediately after I suggested drinks. I then went to bed and text her asking for her number the next morning so potential error there lol. In future, I wonder if it’s best to sexualise without going too far and then do comfort all in the same sitting/ conversation to try to reduce flaking.