Got cocky and stalemated this interaction, any suggestions

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G

39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)

Probably the hottest chick in my queue. I got cocky because the interaction was going really well, and I wanted to crystalize a dominant frame. We had been texting pretty rapidly. Last text was sent yesterday. Help me dig myself out

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E

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How many days has it been? If it's been 2 days already I'd send her "I hope you didn't think I was serious"

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D

147 Posts (+145), 493 Cmts (+180)

Eddy is right

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M

55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)

This. It's always easier to recover from being too Nicky than being too beta so I think you still got a good chance to revive things man

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D

10 Posts (+3), 12 Cmts (+3)

Why dont you post the whole convo?

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S

26 Posts (+16), 191 Cmts (+106)

For future reference, in situations like this I tend to say something like "I can do Friday after X o'clock" or something similar. That way you don't sound like you've got nothing better in your life than wait for this chick. Adjust X based on context and investment levels.

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G

39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)

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G

39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)

Yeah I do the same. I'll say "hmmm, Friday should work. Im busy until 7, but we can meet at 8 at ____". Setting dates later seems to help close rates as well

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Stuart LightThrower Avatar

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"It's not that big an ask ;)"

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