Hi new member here !
There's this girl I met from cold approach, talked 10min, related quite well, gave me a lot of positive compliance but keeps on giving me excused on why she can't meet up while still giving me signs of interest
I even tried to get a threesome organised with her and tho she declined because of "body issues", she subtly explained that she is DTF, so I said "Let's us 2 go for a hike then" but now it's been 3 times I ask her about her schedule and a month I try to plan something with her and she says she's too busy while still at the same time keeping on telling me about her annoying problems in her life and showing interest, and I oftentimes need to double text to get an answer outta her so I just went directly for a call out...maybe the first text seemed a bit butthurt, I just forget to put the "if you want to meet up" but I'd like some feedback from you guys on my text game when it comes to calling her out, how could I improve on call outs ? And at this point is it too late to get a date with her ? Lol I guess I offended a LGBTQIA+ feminist by "trying to control her free will" ad she might have perceived it 😂
Thx
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Move on bro, you invest so much for nothing
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That's what I'm thinking, red flag for being an attention seeker with no real intention of meeting up, kind of a catfish
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The problem is you're being too accomodating. She sees that she has the power in this dynamic and can keep you around as a text buddy. The best solution I find in a situation like this is to stop engaging in her chit chat. Basically, I heavily hint at that the only way she gets to talk to me is in real life. I will not converse with her about bullshit all day. Hope that helps man
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Shoulda posted this before the last few messages. Read the stickied post and watch the videos on takeaways. I don't think you offended her, but when you show balls sometimes women will test you right back. Post the entire convo next time mate, as it's tough to see what the current dynamics are, even with your explanation
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Thx