Goes from flirting with me in my uber and asking me to hang out to low interest and flaking.

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T

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T

14 Posts (+2), 48 Cmts (+16)

So I posted here a couple times about this. It always takes several days to get any advice on these i try to figure it out for myself. Ill drop the screenshots so you can see how the text interaction went and let me know how I could have done this one better. For additional context, I gave her an uber ride to her sneaky link at 3am from a club. As I was driving her she started flirting with me, and as I dropped her off she asked if I wanted to hang out. I said "sure", we exchanged numbers, and she went to go get her back blown out or whatever. The ensuing text exchange shows the rest.

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J

11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)

Looks like she agreed to your soft close then you didn't confirm a time and place. And then you spontaneously ask her if she's free, which didn't work out.

Re-engage and get her to say her schedule again, then invite her to "split a bottle on your romantic balcony" as it were. Get a firm confirmation of time and place after bantering a bit

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T

14 Posts (+2), 48 Cmts (+16)

should i re engage soon? wait a couple days?

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J

11 Posts (-4), 251 Cmts (+142)

If it's already been a couple days since you last texted then now is good. Although this one I would make it 5+ days between texts personally. Your call.

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