So I just got one of my neighbors numbers and it just so happens to be a house full of girls. They’re all pretty cute and fashionable. I’m going to send a text asking what they’re up to tonight. Does it make a difference to refer to them as “ladies” vs “hey what are you guys up to tonight”? I may end up pursuing one of them but I don’t know whether any of them have bfs or gfs. Any thoughts or ideas? I don’t want to get friend zoned off the bat if one of them is hot and down yet I also don’t want to come off too strong having not hung out with them yet. First impressions do go a long ways.