So I met this girl off hinge and 2 weeks ago we hooked up on the first date. The sex was absolutely amazing. But now she is sending me this message: I was flirting with her but then she suddenly sent me this message talking about emotional connections, after I was trying to sexualize things over text.
Edit* idk why the screenshot isn’t uploading so I’ll just write it out how it’s written on text:
ME: “make sure to save the pics I sent you otherwise they’ll get lost in our msgs 😂”
GIRL: “I’m steps ahead of you bby 💕 😇 all your pics deserve a spot in my camera roll”
ME: “haha am I that special? 😏”
GIRL: “maybeee”
ME: “After I please you down there, that maybe will turn into a yes ;)
GIRL: “Hmm probably not, I’m a big fan of emotional connections so you’d have better luck with something that shows u care”
Again, these texts are after we hooked up. I am super confused by her text and need help with this, please help me out here.
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yeah man just to be blunt, that text wasn't good, kinda needy in wanting a "yes" and willing to do stuff for it.
Girls don't like any sense of neediness in my experience.
But if the sex was "absolutely amazing" as you say this shouldn't be an obstacle. I usually just start planning the next date soon with girls where we both know the sex was good, so something like
"emotional connection def makes everything better ;) whats your schedule like this week"
Congrats on the lay, let us know how it goes
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invite her over and you can cook her some food
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