Posted this on the main forum before upgrading to mastermind.

Alex, you said it was ASD due to coming too close to sex, which makes total sense. My question is, have you ever come back from this, or is it futile to try?

If it makes a difference, I wasn't pushy at all about sex. She rarely had to tell me to slow down or stop - I'd read her body language and do it myself. Even invited her to spend the night. I'm dating, sleeping, and getting rejected by other girls. Don't care much about any of them except her. So whatever she feels is just in her head.