Went out to club last night . Approached a woman and her friend .. told her that I was with friends but saw her looking adorable and would regret it if I didn’t say hi ..we had a convo for few minutes amd asked for her number ... she took my phone amd put her name and number in my contacts ..
As the night went one she and her friend were walking by my group and I grabbed her hand and introduced her really quick to my friends .. as she was leaving and I was right behind her, I felt her hand on my crotch ..
As I got home I sent a text that it’s me .. she said hi . I told her I enjoyed meeting her .. this was a wrong move now that I think . She liked my comment .
This morning I opened “ I think you’re trouble and you have one of my weaknesses” she texts right back “trouble ? How so? Haha. And what weakness “
I replied “the way you grabbed my crotch when you were leaving “
And no response to that so far ..
Thoughts ?
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Go for the makeout the same night. Sounds like she wanted to fuck then. "grabbed my crotch" is pretty unsexy. I probably wouldn't have referenced that at all in the sober light of day, as there's a decent chance she'll feel some shame about it, and would have been more subtle; "your hands make your trouble for you". Gotta build vibe up (ie make her horny) before getting there brotha. Just leave it for now IMO. Update us in a few days if no response.
I think this is a case of uncalibrated sexualization. Good chance her pussy is dried up already with that crotch text you sent. I'd watch Alex's video on how to sexualize properly over text.
The girl is not in the same aroused state of mind she was in the bar when she's reading this text. So you have to build up again if you're going to sexualize. At this point your best best is "If you're shy, I'd understand" I think.
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the text game here is a bit poor man, but seems like your aware of that, check out my video on how to text cold approach numbers for more guidance on what to do in these types of situations