So I have been talking to this girl from hinge for almost 2 weeks. She texted me first, showed high interest and even tried to qualify to my prompt. Soft closed after 4days of chatting and exchanged numbers. Had good amount of conversation over the phone and text. But everytime I ask her out she ends the conversation, says she needs time and changes the topic next time. We talked for an hour over the phone 2days ago and when I brought up date she got sleepy and ended the call.
Today we were texting back and forth bantering, just when I asked her plans for this week she just disappeared, her last seen on whatsapp is when I last texted and been 2hrs since lol.
What to do? I've not been very pushy I just ask her about her schedule or if she decided yet after engaging convo and some banter and never double text. I feel we've talked enough, she feels comfortable to call me and talk for hour so why she avoids idea of meeting up?
Should I still keep on chatting about random stuff or ignore her till she replies? How long should I persist?
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"Is there a particular reason you're being quite difficult to meet?"
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Personally I would've called her out on it and try to figure out what is preventing her from meeting, but if she does persist with this behavior I would just cut it off, I know pwf is alot about beibg persistent but it sounds like you've been speaking alot and Im not a fan of being a girl's pen pal
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I would just be like are you always this difficult to make plans with or just simply call her out "is there a reason you get weird everytime I mention date plans?"